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There are only results. This is almost a corollary belief to number one and it is equally important on its own. Most people in our culture have been programmed to fear this thing called failure. Yet, all of us can think of times when we wanted on thing and got another. We have all flunked a test, suffered through a frustration romance that do not work out, put together a business plan only to see everything go awry. What successful people see, the do not see failure, they do not believe in it. It does not compute.
People always succeed in getting some sort of results. The super successes of our culture are not people who do not fail, but simply people who know that if they try something and it done not give them what they want, They have had a learning experience. They take some new actions and produce some new results.
Think about it. What is the one asset, the one benefit you have today over yesterday? The answer, of course, is experience. People who failure make internal representations of what might not work in advance. This is what keeps them from taking the very action that could ensure the accomplishment of their desire. Are you afraid of failure? Well, how do you feel about learning? You can learn from very human experience and can thereby always succeed in anything you do.
Mark Twain said, they is no sadder sight than a young pessimist. He is right. People who believe in failure are almost guaranteed a mediocre existence. Failure is something that is just not perceive e b people who achieve greatness. They do not dwell on it. They do not attach negative emotions to something that does not work.
