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Self-esteem is the way we feel about ourselves. When we feel good, the world looks nice, productivity goes up and our relationships are a lot better. The reverse is just as true. What could be the reason? It is that there is a direct correlation between our feelings and behavior.
If you want to build high self-esteem quickly, one of the fastest ways is to do something for those who cannot repay you in cash or kind.
Whenever we do something positive in life, even if no one is watching, we rise a little bit in our own eyes. Whenever we do something negative life lying, cheating, stealing, even if no one is watching, we fall down a little bit in our own eyes, that is the magic of self-esteem.
There are many individuals’ organizations who do voluntary activates where there are no gains in cash or king such as organizing blood donation, eye donation caps. You ask them why they are doing this and their answer is I feel good.
Do what feels good without understanding that feeling is a natural outcome of being good. How can a person feel good when they do not do good?
These people forget that we do not live in isolation. What you do affect me and what I do affects you. We are connected. We have to realize that we are sharing this planet and we must learn to behave responsibility.
There are two kinds of people in this world, givers and takers. Takers eat well land givers sleep well. Givers have high self-esteem, a positive attitude and they serve society We all have the need to take. But the sign of a healthy personality is one that also has a need to give.