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Normally, it is not the big things in life that get up upset, the little things bud us the most. But if we do not learn how to deal properly with the little things, they will end up turning into big things. Say you drive home from work after a long day at the little things, they will end p running into big things. Say you drive home from work after a long day at the office and when you pull in to park your car, you see that your kids have left their toys in the driveway. You have to stop, get out and move the toys. You are tired, it is hot and you get sweaty moving all that stuff. It is a naturally get upset and frustrated. But you need to recognize what going on. That is the enemy trying to steal your peace and ruin the evening with your family but getting you irritated over something relatively small in the grand scheme of life. You have got to make a decision that you are not going to allow the matter to escalate, do not allow yourself to get upset.
No, you can do whatever you want to do, God said He would never let us go through something that is too difficult for us to handle. If your desire is great enough, you can stay calm and cool no matter what comes against you in life.
God gives us His peace in the inside, but it is up to us make s of that peace. Especially in the pressure points of life, the way you do that is by choosing to keep a good attitude. You have got to choose to stay happy.
I am just waiting on God to run my situation around, I hear someone saying, that sound good, but the truth is, God is waiting on you. If you had change your attitude and start enjoying where you are right now, God would show up and begin to work in your life. If you are always waiting for some even to make you happy, you are going to spend your whole lifetime waiting. Something will always be not quite right in your life. You will always find some reason not be happy.
The marriage partner is not really the problem. No other person can untimely make you happy. You must learn how to be happy within yourself.
Granted, you may have some problems, things in your life May not be perfect. Maybe you wish you were more handsome or more beautify, more of gifted and talented. You may wish you had been born with a lot more in your favor. But you can not let those superficial things steal your happiness. You have say, God, I know You made me who I am on purpose. This is Your plan and You have given me what I have to work with. I am not going to complain or be negative. I am not going to go through life wishing things were different, wishing I was somebody else. God, I am going to be happy with who You made me to be. I am going to enjoy my life in spite of my shortcomings.
Do not take for granted what God has already given me. Have a grateful attitude. See the best in every person and in every situation and learn to be happy right where you are. Bloom where you are planted. You may not be where you want to be in life today. You have not have the perfect job. Life may not turn out exactly like you hoped, but you must make a decision that you are going to make the most of that situation. Learn to be happy in spite of your circumstances.