You need to become a seeker of good. Yu need to focus on the positive in y9ur life. Start looking for what is right in a person or situation instead of looking for what is wrong. Because of our conditioning, most of us are so focus to finding fault and looking for what is wrong that we often forget to see what is positive.
What is your focus? Search for the gold. If you are looking for what is wrong with people or with things, you will find many faults. What are we looking for? Gold or dirt? Even in paradise, fault finders will find faults. Most people find what they are looking for
Some people will always look for the negative
Some people fail to see the positive in spite of its being obvious. Some people always look at the negative side. Who is a pessimist?
They are moaners, groaners and permanent complainers.
They are unhappy when they feel good, for fear they will feel worse when they feel better.
They are unhappy when they have no troubles to speak of.
They always turn out the lights to see how dark it is.
They cannot enjoy their health today because they think they may be sick tomorrow.
They not only expect the worst but make the worst of whatever happens.
They do not see the doughnut, they only see the hole.
They forget their blessings and count their troubles.
Looking for the positive does not necessarily mean overlooking faults. Being a positive thinker does not means that a person is solution focused.
Be so strong that nothing can disturb your peach of mind. Talk health, happiness and prosperity of every person y9u meet. Make all y9our friends feel that you appreciate their good qualities and strengths. Look at the sunny side of everything. Think only of the best, work only for the best and expect only the best. Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. Gove everyone a smile. Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time left to criticize others.